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July 27 2009
Why is it that mothers want to control their sons? Is this a carry over from marriage where they managed to seduce a happy fun-loving young man and turn him into their personal defeated whipping boy? Does it bother mothers so much that their sons no longer need them? The whole concept is to prepare the young to manage their lives but it seems that mothers believe that they should never give up control. Why do they ask an 18 year old what he is going to do tonight? He has no idea and even if he did know, his mother would be the last to know. They never plan anything 5 minutes before it happens. Mothers plan everything months ahead and it is like military manouevers. And like the crazy sergeant, they lose it if your son is not on time or forgot why he was there in the first place. Mothers today do not get it that the art of text messaging eliminates any planning or surprises for the youth of today. They are living in the minute because that is how they deal with everything. Perhaps mothers are trying to train their boys before the next woman in their lives begins the task of destroying all the fun that they could have had in the future. The reason mothers don't like potential wives is the thought of giving up any control over her son. They think that mothers are the only woman that he should love. They will put up with the wives if it is leading to grand children but don't even think of telling your mother that your wife wants/needs to relocate to another city. Distance = loss of control for mothers and proves that the new woman now has the power. The bride is moving only because she needs to get her husband out from under the mother's spell. Most mothers would be better off with self-improvement courses for themselves or focusing all that energy on charitable work. I have witnessed many young men that leave home because of their mother's relentless attempts to dominate their sons, believing that this punishment is for the betterment of their son's future. In actuality the sons reject these attempts and carry a hatred that does not diminish for many years. Mothers - leave your sons alone

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